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Bladur\'s Gate 3: Complete Romance Guide

Author: Nova Mar 16,2025

Baldur's Gate 3 offers a diverse range of romance options, adding depth and memorable experiences to your playthrough. Whether you seek a long-term commitment or a fleeting encounter, the game caters to various preferences. This guide provides a walkthrough for each romance option, helping you navigate the complexities and avoid relationship roadblocks.

All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### Understanding Romance in BG3:

It's crucial to understand that your character's gender doesn't restrict your romantic choices. Every romance option is available regardless of your Tav's characteristics.

BG3 features two types of romances: long-term relationships and one-night stands. The approach varies greatly depending on the character and your goals. Some characters offer casual encounters, while others require a more significant courtship. Furthermore, you can be locked out of certain romances if you pursue multiple relationships concurrently or fail to meet specific timing requirements. Many companion NPCs are romancable, and choosing a romance significantly alters your interactions with that character, making it impossible to experience every romance in a single playthrough. Detailed guides for each romance are linked below.

All Romance Options:

The following companions are romancable in Baldur's Gate 3:

Shadowheart
Gale
Astarion
Karlach
Wyll
Lae'zel
Halsin
Minthara

The following non-companion characters offer short-term romances:

Mizora
Guardian/Emperor
Drow Twins
Haarlep
Naoise Nallinto

How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3

Shadowheart, often encountered early in the game, presents a prominent romance option. Her storyline is deeply interwoven with the main plot, adding intrigue to the relationship. A long-term or short-term romance with Shadowheart is possible, with opportunities arising in each act.

How to Romance Shadowheart:

Keep Shadowheart in your party (this isn't mandatory but highly beneficial).
Prioritize increasing her approval rating early. Kindness, non-violence, and respecting her privacy are key. Supporting her against Lae'zel provides a significant boost.
Once her approval is high in Act I, look for the dialogue option indicating a missed connection. Alternatively, wait for the camp party after rescuing Halsin. If you've shown interest, an exclamation mark will appear above her head. Initiate conversation, accept her invitation to share a drink, and choose her as your evening companion. During the subsequent events, avoid uninterested dialogue options.
In Act II, support either Selune or Shar while maintaining the romance. If choosing Selune, support her new appearance. If choosing Shar, a nighttime event will eventually trigger.
In Act III, complete Shadowheart's quest regardless of your choice in Act II. This unlocks a final romantic event.

Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:

Under certain circumstances, Shadowheart may end the relationship if you pursue other romantic interests. The exact rules are unclear, so caution is advised, especially in Honor Mode.

How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3

Gale, a wizard from Waterdeep, is receptive to a romance. His storyline is integral to the game's plot, making his romance particularly rewarding.

How to Romance Gale:

Rescue Gale from the portal.
Comply with his requests to consume magical items (up to three instances in Act I).
Participate in his magic lesson in Act I, choosing dialogue options that lead to a romantic outcome. Avoid being unkind.
In Act I/II transition, support Gale during the cutscene with Elminster.
In Act III, keep Gale alive and read "The Annals of Karsus" before a long rest. Speak with Gale and select the appropriate romantic dialogue options.

Gale Romance Special Notes:

Gale is not open to polyamory and will react negatively to other romantic pursuits.

How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3

Astarion, known for his wit and devil-may-care attitude, is a popular romance option. He's notably more open-minded than other companions regarding relationships.

How to Romance Astarion:

Increase his approval rating by adding him to your party and choosing self-serving options.
Allowing him to drink your blood boosts your relationship.
During the camp party, interact with Astarion and choose the romantic dialogue options. Let him bite you.
In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn about Astarion's scars. This leads to a nighttime encounter.
In Act III, complete Astarion's quest for the final romantic scenes.

Astarion Romance Special Notes:

Astarion is the most open-minded regarding relationships among the companions.

How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3

Karlach's romance is considered one of the most challenging to initiate but highly rewarding. She's very sensitive about infidelity.

How to Romance Karlach:

Support Karlach against the fake Paladins of Tyr.
Collect Infernal Iron and have Dammon repair her infernal engine in Act I. Then, express your desire to touch her.
During the camp party, express your feelings and initiate a kiss after cooling her down with water.
In Act II, use Infernal Iron to further repair her engine.
In Act III, take her on a date.

Karlach Romance Special Notes:

Karlach reacts strongly to infidelity; however, redemption is possible depending on the circumstances.

How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3

Wyll's romance enhances his complex storyline.

How to Romance Wyll:

Increase his approval rating by acting heroically and supporting him in his quests.
Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings in the Emerald Grove.
During the party, choose the romantic dialogue options.
In Act II, a romantic encounter will occur after a long rest.
In Act III, help Wyll save his father and complete his quest with Ansur.

How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3

Lae'zel shows early interest; a casual encounter or long-term relationship is possible.

How to Romance Lae'zel:

Increase her approval rating through decisive actions and combat.
Initiate a conversation in camp to begin the romance.
Maintain her approval for a nighttime encounter in Act II.
In Act III, her actions depend on siding with Vlaakith or Orpheus.

Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:

Lae'zel is not open to polyamory.

How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3

Halsin is a popular romance option.

How to Romance Halsin:

Rescue him from the Goblin Camp.
Complete his quests in Act II.
Keep him in your party and increase his approval rating through kindness and fairness.
Exhaust all dialogue options, paying attention to discussions about past lovers.

How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3

Minthara's romance is unique due to her role as an antagonist.

How to Romance Minthara:

Side with Minthara against the Emerald Grove.
Express your allegiance to her after defeating the Grove.
During the goblin party, express your desire to be with her.

Minthara Romance Special Notes:

This path significantly alters the game's experience and conflicts with other companions.

All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

This section details how to pursue short-term romances with Mizora, the Guardian/Emperor, the Drow Twins, Haarlep, and Naoise Nallinto. The specific steps for each are described in detail within the guide.